#jealousy

How should I handle when one of the kids gets more of something than the other?

How should I handle when one of the kids gets more of something than the other? One of my sons gets jealous and asks his brother to give him more so that they have the same amount or the same stuff. Also how to handle my son not being nice to another kid in school?

How do I handle one child feeling left out when I am with the other?

My kids are always comparing what we do for them. I try to be as fair as I can but given their ages (4 and 7) they will  never get the exact same things.  I have tried to explain that to them, but they probably can’t see that because they keep complaining/ comparing.  Any thoughts on how I should handle that? 

My oldest may be feeling jealous of his younger brother. How do I talk to him?

My younger son has been invited to train and be a guest player in a tournament for the soccer club every boy in south Florida wants to get in. He is doing great and excited with the opportunity. On the other hand, I have my older son that also plays soccer in a local club and he is very happy for his younger brother but at the same time, my older one has been very edgy, moody, “grosero” lately. How do I talk to him?

My daughter had an epic tantrum over a gift for someone else. What is happening?

My daughter had an epic tantrum this morning. She went downstairs to make her cousin a birthday card and she remembered that we are giving her a gift that she has never had before. So my daughter came up the stairs crying and screaming how she needs to have the same gift as her cousin but in a crazy aggressive way. I tried to explain to her that when we want things that we don’t have, we can figure it out. She was still screaming and crying saying, “I hate my cousin, I neeeeeed the gift for myself”.

How do I get my 4 year old to do anything without consequences?

1. How do I get my 4 year old to do anything without consequences?
Such as “if you don’t clean up your toys they will go away, if you don’t put your shoes on you will not come to the birthday party” etc..

2. Regarding rewards, he is having a regression with using the toilet since I started potty training my little one, so I am offering him rewards for days he stays dry to encourage him to not pee his pants. Am I doing it all wrong?