My younger son has been invited to train and be a guest player in a tournament for the soccer club every boy in south Florida wants to get in. He is doing great and excited with the opportunity. On the other hand, I have my older son that also plays soccer in a local club and he is very happy for his younger brother but at the same time, my older one has been very edgy, moody, “grosero” lately. How do I talk to him?