#discipline

My 13yo has become very challenging. How do I discipline them?

My 13 yo has been very challenging at home and at school.  When he does not show appropriate behavior, I start to put restrictions on the phone/take away the phone.  However, I feel like this is being done daily to the point sometimes he says he doesn’t care (but really he does). 

Any suggestions ?

My children just do not listen! What do I do?

Both of my children show no respect to the parent/child dynamic. When either my husband or myself give an instruction they simply ignore it. I can repeat what I just said and it will continue until I get upset and then they react or I just give up because they do not listen. Help!!! I feel so lost!

How to best discipline my defiant little one?

ur little strong willed daughter is really giving us a run for our money. She refuses to get dressed, going potty, brushing teeth, eating breakfast. I just feel overwhelmed and discouraged and I know it is normal at this age, but I feel defeated.
My husband is battling the gentle parenting approach and thinks she needs firmer and negative consequences and I disagree. I don’t know what to do.