#delayedgratification

My 7yo battles me on homework and rules. Help!

My 7yo son is a very good student and is also doing well socio-emotionally (I spoke with his teacher).  He is extremely proud of how he is doing, but when it comes to homework I basically have to strongly prod him and be on top of it. Also, he doesn’t like my “rules”.  I think this may be related to the homework issue but also me clamping down on YouTube/ iPad use which unfortunately he started using before I was entirely aware of all the risks for kids and restricted access. What do you think I should do? How should I talk to him about these things? 

How can I help and support my 12-year-old with phone addiction?

I would like to have an approach that is collaborative with her and empowering rather than punishment based, or forced... Help!

My children are having tantrums when having to do something they don't want to do.

I need tips on how to deal with “don’t want to go to school today” or “don't want to go to sports, I'm tired' tantrums.
All they want to do (both of them) is stay on the couch, play Roblox or Minecraft.
How to convince them without threatening or forcing them to go?