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My 7yo battles me on homework and rules. Help!

My 7yo son is a very good student and is also doing well socio-emotionally (I spoke with his teacher).  He is extremely proud of how he is doing, but when it comes to homework I basically have to strongly prod him and be on top of it. Also, he doesn’t like my “rules”.  I think this may be related to the homework issue but also me clamping down on YouTube/ iPad use which unfortunately he started using before I was entirely aware of all the risks for kids and restricted access. What do you think I should do? How should I talk to him about these things?