#tweens

My 10yo daughter is at the cusp of puberty but not interested. How can I prepare her?

My 10yo daughter doesn’t seem very interested lately in talking about puberty and changes in her body etc. We started reading a book about that for a while and she was fine and interested. Lately when I approach the subject it’s like she doesn’t want to let go of being a little girl.
How do I respect her timing but also prepare her?

How do we know what our parenting choices are in difficult situations with my neuro-divergent child?

How do we know what our parenting choices are, how to draw those lines in the face of what we have, many cooks in the kitchen with advice and at the same time keep our ears and eyes open to make sure we aren’t in denial or falling into the trap of our own fears?