My twins rip up the books we read. How do I get them to stop?
He doesn't want to go to camp. Now what?
A smartwatch for kids? Good or bad?
An angel at school and not so much at home. How do we achieve consistency?
Is it okay that I discipline my child like my dog?
Can I ever just reward them with all of the chocolate?
What's the best way to break a habit?
"I don't love you, Mommy." Does my little one mean it?
How do I respond to "Is Grandpa gonna be okay?"
Can I PLEASE, impose consequences? Pretty PLEASE?
My infant is pulling his hair. Should I be pulling mine over it?
How do we talk about race?
What to we do with 17-year-old's and boundaries? Mine is not the easiest to control/contain. I know a standoff with him is not the best way. But here we are in a stand off...so now what? He's slacking in grades.... slacking in communication; meaning he's OTW at 11, but shows up at 1 AM. (Yes, once they are teenagers you go back to not sleeping). The best part is that at the same time he gets himself on a mission trip, participates in retreats and ranks in debate. So now what? Take away phone, social stuff, football, car?
Way to bring up a hard, but important question. School unfortunately is now up to him. My husband the high school teacher is really great at speaking to the kids about how they have to want to succeed more than him. I don't know if he would put it that way, but that is how I translate it. He lets them understand that in the end it is their education and he will be there when they are ready to take it. He is highly successful. So with school it's that conversation of letting him know why you feel he is failing himself rather than you/dad and that you hope he will live up to his goals/expectations.
Communication that's a hard one, but if you have set boundaries and rules then no car or phone seems valid. It's a result of his behavior and choices. That being said when a rule is continually broken in ANY age group we have to wonder why is it not working and in the teens years it's an opportunity to check in with them and have a conversation with them on why said rule is not working for them. I often am amazed at their answer when I ask a teen that question in front of their parents. Try it.
I just lost it with my kid. How do I restore order?
Is it ever appropriate to parent through if/thens?
Am I wrong for not following up on all of my child's homework?
How do I handle a toddler who wants everything and nothing?
Is my baby going through separation anxiety?
How do I handle my little one's transition to another teacher?
How to handle a death in the family?